Hopefully, you have found the articles at this website by Dr. Diane England helpful. Perhaps, though, you could benefit as well from other articles she has written which appear at a related website she also developed. It deals with being codependent and healing from your codependency—via personal development and spiritual growth.
Of course, you may well have the need to first face up to the realities of your relationship—to accept, for instance, that perhaps it is filled with, to use Dr. Phil’s terminology, deal breakers such as narcissism, addictions, and abuse. That said, sometimes it also helps to know something about the new road or journey on which you’re apt to find yourself in the future--if you do decide to make a relationship change, for instance. As Dr. Stephen Covey taught us in his best-seller, The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, it typically helps, when you intend to create change, to start with the end in mind. This can provide you with motivation as well as keep you moving forward versus spinning your wheels, for example.
So, why not give that website and its articles at least a once-over. Pay attention to what resonates with you--and ignore what doesn't. But of course, don’t hesitate to come back later and check out any website and its articles again. After all, sometimes on this type of journey, something doesn’t appeal because it isn’t in sync with where you are at emotionally at that time. That doesn’t mean it couldn’t be exactly what you need to hear or learn at a later point, however. Thus, we hope to see you again! And the best to you, certainly.
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